How to Find a Lasting Love Partner?

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If you are hoping to find a love for a serious committed relationship instead of a casual dating you are at the right place. One of the best tips is to be more open minded but still maintaining your cool and not being overzealous.

Here are the best ways to find and recognize the long lasting love partner:

Communication is the key – we can’t overemphasize it enough, but whether you are seeking a relationship or are already in one communication should be the top priority to begin and maintain it. Once we stop talking and  interacting less and less, it is leading us on a path of destruction. But remember communicating more isn’t necessarily the best thing to do; it is to communicate effectively so that you don’t hurt his or her feelings but still having a chat. See if you want to know more about this cute guy, you can communicate with your eyes. And if a guy is interested in that girl for a serious love relationship, don’t be too shy to acknowledge after few meet ups. You can’t always expect other people to take the initiative, sometimes you gotto step up your own effort in this game.

Be somewhat a risk taker – a lot of people are pretty shy to go infront of someone they feel hot about. Only exception is the bar, where guys just openly goes upto a girl and offer drinks – but then they aren’t looking for love to start with, more often than not. More people have shifted gear towards online dating and relationships website instead, where they don’t feel too shy about starting the conversations and initiating the whole thing first. You have to be a risk taker to break the ice; if you are too afraid to reach the women or men of your interests, just take a chance – even if it is in a real work, you can just pretend like this is happening online.

Recognize the green light signal – if you are serious about finding a love, you should keep your eyes open in the environment you expect to meet that person. When the person doesn’t look at you, it could mean he or she has no interests and very rarely that too shy to admit they like you. In either cases, it is better if you could  keep your eyes open to notice any signals he or she sends you. Once you find your partner, stop seeing or seeking other fish/chicks. That’s how a committed relationship works. You can admit you have been looking around and have met couple of other people but now that you have him or her, you will end this hunt.

Most important is a Trustworthiness – since you are looking for a real love partner for the rest of your life, you should consider narrowing your dream guy or girl to someone who you can not only rely on for now, but can also have full trust of staying by you in this life no matter what. Most of us, who have exes – ex boyfriends and ex girlfriends – that that they were so sweet, nice and dependable when we together with them; but after breaks up happen all this fake love is gone. A true love partner will never leave you to start with; and even if you two do end up breaking up love remains inside our hearts and minds. I personally broke up with my girlfriend three years ago (we both had our shares of mistakes), I still love her even though she doesn’t want to hug me anymore but sleeps with random guys and at the end comes to me to pay for her cell phone bills. I make less than average Americans but still help her – I think that’s a true love.

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One Response to “How to Find a Lasting Love Partner?”

  1. Gangnir Says:
    May 10th, 2011 at 3:43 am

    maturity sure is the first step in a serious relationship..

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