Signs and Symptoms of a Cheating Boyfriend

Last Revised on August 6, 2009

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There are tons for things going in the world and your man can be lost anywhere if you don’t keep him close to you. Your boyfriend could be cheating in no time, if you don’t close in touch with him. Here are some of the tips you can use to find the signs and symptoms of your boyfriend or man cheating on you:

1. Stays out Long: Does he come home late? And is not interested in touching and kissing you? This could be one of the biggest sign because what’s was the main reason he was out that late. He could have been spending time with another women that late and now he feels so tired to even touch you a little bit.

2. He Got No Money: If he works, he should have money in his bank account. So you can start thinking about where are those money really going into if he has been working all the time. Most likely he spent all those money on buying gifts and stuff to another girl. He has no money in his card means he is not feeling responsible about the relationship anymore.

3. Does A Lot of Favor: A study just published in the November issue of the Journal of Applied Psychology found that when there’s a blurry line between right and wrong (as there often is with matters of infidelity), the people who become the worst cheaters are actually the ones who think of themselves as having the highest moral standards. The speculation is that these people can justify their wrongdoings with explanations that they weren’t doing anything wrong at all. Simply put, not following the Monogamy Rules makes it hard for the Do-Gooder to live in his skin.

4. On the Phone and Computer All the time: If you husband is starting to spend more and more time on the phone and internet without any specific reason, then star to see if he is doing something wrong. These days people can cheat on their wives that easy with the internet online dating and phone sex available. See if he is trying to find online date.

5. More and More Anger: Is he getting angry easier than ever? It could be that he is not interested in you anymore and found someone else. Now he is showing his anger on you because he could not get in touch with that women because he considers you as a road block. He might be desperate to date the other women. Irritation might be a big sign that you might not want to ignore.

6. Getting Dresresssed Up More: Some traits of cheaters are all of a sudden new narcissism. These self-loving folks are so wrapped up in their own self-importance that they don’t even consider the effect that cheating has on the other person. So what if I stray and have the occasional one-nightstand? I deserve to be happy.

7. Past History of Cheating on Ex-girlfriends: History has a tendency to repeat itself a lot, especially if we look at how human acts and behaves. If your man cheated on his ex girlfriends, be wary of him cheating this time on you. Think about how you became aware of the cheating he did in the past. Did he got caught by these girls or did he just admitted it? Or maybe bragged about it to his friends.

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21 Responses to “Signs and Symptoms of a Cheating Boyfriend”

  1. danny Says:
    December 8th, 2007 at 2:05 am

    what about catching a cheating GF? 😀

  2. sandra Says:
    October 16th, 2008 at 12:30 pm

    i am to marry a man,but he has started lying to me and telling me he’s working and instead he’s alone in abar with the owner during closed hours and they’re the only two there.then when i called him at work late one night during harvest to see why he was’nt home yet ,he told the person i was with that i was his mother.then his neice &brother told me he says he’ll never marry me.and people in town said he’s saying the same thing. he’s been hitting on a female gal in front of me and said it was a mistake cause he had’nt been with a woman in 20 years before me. and i found out that when i went on vacation he went to see her at her work. he swears i’m the only one he wants, but now he ‘s had 8 sexual messages on his cell phone from a woman. he says people are just trying to break us up and he’ll never cheat on me. what do i do, cuz i love him deeply?

    Ok you love him deeply, but does he love you deeply as well? I understand the love relationship is not really about expecting back the same you offer to your lover, but there is a point where we have to be truthful to ourselves. Just like you can’t clap with one hand, love relationship can’t exist in the absence of true love from either one side. I hope you guys can work it out, however.

  3. McKenzie Johnson aka dating expert Says:
    August 6th, 2009 at 10:39 pm

    There are mainly two ways to catch a cheating boyfriend – one is online on the computer and the other one is offline at his work and free time or cell phone.
    Check his internet web browsing history and see which sites he visits. If he has any social networking sites such as myspace or facebook, look at his profile page and see if he calls himself Single or In Relationship.
    You can also try spying on his cell phone records without making him or yourself look suspicious. See what numbers he calls most and any text messages or such is available. If his cell phone doesn’t have any history or whatsoever, you might want to know why he did so; did he always deleted recent calls or voicemails on his cellphone or not? I think I listed the two of the best symptoms and ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating.

  4. gotcha Says:
    September 16th, 2009 at 3:54 pm

    google him! 😉

  5. sarah Says:
    January 15th, 2010 at 7:34 am

    mine work all the time we have a baby together but hes working al day and night like ? He has cheated before like text another girl dirty stuff.

    He has his own lock up in the day then goes to work in nights he barley stays up mine anymore cause hes so “tired” he never makes time for us even on weekends saying hes in the garge/lock up working on cars for “us”

    He never texts me back until he finishes work, i check his phone but no texts to any other girls so do you think he is doing what he says he is. He said he would never cheat on me caue he loves me i just need advice

    Wouldn’t any new father want to spend time with hi girlfriend and baby?

    please help ! I relly need to wake up it’s like im blind and i cannot live ike thi much longer.

  6. Confused in dallas Says:
    August 16th, 2010 at 9:28 pm

    I been with my bf for 10 years. He cheated on me 2 years ago but i forgave him. Now i feel like he could be doing it again. Every time i ask he says he’d never do it again. Am i paranoid or is he cheating again?

  7. fudgie Says:
    September 13th, 2010 at 5:12 am

    I hv a bf who once pregnant a girl mistakenly as she was d 1 nyt stand in a party, so d girl didnt tell him dat she was pregnant his baby, but claimed dat d father was her real partner, tym goz on d couple had a quarrel till they part 4rm ea. other told d guy dat d baby isnt his & claim back 2 my bf dat d baby is his. My bf is too soft, half stubborn, he admitted everything so easily. We talked about the baby i told him 2 take the baby with him because I dont need anything 2 make them 2gether again, he agreed & asked 4 the baby on the girl’s family, they denied said he must first pay for the damages & lobola, he dont love the girl really, so now the girl fights me claiming that she’s the wife, she calls me now & than telling me that I’ll never find my man back, they are about to get married. NOW the guy has found out that the girl is using Muti for him & is hating her like craze. He wants me back, I love him, he say not even a single girl he met had given him love like I did, Im scared bcos the girl always promise to step me if I get closer to him.

    You know it not that easy to move on while your heart bis with someone else, plz help, can

  8. mjg Says:
    September 13th, 2010 at 5:17 am

    my problem is the gelfrend i have, i love her too much but she gives me stress coz all the time she ask for money. i havent given it to her even once, coz i dont want her to get use to dat game.today she ask for airtime, tomorow she ask for money to do the hear. i dont know what to do coz she demand these things it like it is my responsibility to give it to her.

    i sometime think of dumping her but i love her i dont know what to do.

    help me

  9. tee Says:
    November 7th, 2010 at 10:39 pm

    ok my bf is aways outside. ive been having a strong feeling hes cheating. i went through his phone n it was a message that said whatsgood fiend. The female reply who this? he said i meant u the other day in the store. So i called her she said he was flirting sayin how pretty she was. i asked him n he said shes lyin. So we start to argue n he said he did get her number to prove to hes friends he can get her. So i said was u texting her? he said no swear up n down it wasnt him… what should i do? believe him do i leave?

  10. sentha Says:
    November 11th, 2010 at 6:03 am

    My boyfriend he doesn’t want me to touch his cellphone,I’m worried maybe is cheating

  11. vanessa Says:
    December 2nd, 2010 at 10:03 pm

    i still love my first love which is my first boyfriend.what will i do?

  12. curious Says:
    December 11th, 2010 at 8:59 pm

    my bf says that he could have two girls right now but he is with me. what that mean. does it means that hes cheating. or he wants to cheat.also i called my bf at 2:00 a.m. and he would pick up and hang up. three times. then he said he was sleeping then i have to call when i come to his house.

  13. fezzy Says:
    February 9th, 2011 at 9:57 pm

    hi
    My bf is accusing me of cheating and now he said he will kill me if he finds that i am cheating on . I am innocent in ourv relationship when i visists him i usually find staff that shows the signs of cheating e.g broken female watch,assorted condoms if i ask him he never admit that he is the one who was using them. is it possible to make this relationship to work or must i quit

  14. DISHA wow Says:
    February 19th, 2011 at 8:32 pm

    all the points are very true, i thought my bf to be cheating me and so the same my bf thinks abt me, i love him more than myself…. everything is okkk bt he keeps on digging old dead graves and starts arguementing with which is why i was reading the article….. thank god i found him normal…. none of the signs match him, and i keep him very close to meee!!!! thanx fr the superb advices!

  15. SASHA Says:
    May 1st, 2011 at 12:49 am

    I was with a man for four years . I’m twnety now but we meet when i was sixteen. Recently we moved in togther . He had a history of cheatn but i took him back. He told me if we lived together he would stop talking to other women becaues he would be around me all the time . I ended up geting in a fight with a girl that tried to run me and my then boyfriend off the road. I ignored the signs. And now he says he wants to merry me . I had to move out and back in with my mother . I feel so bad about what happen to me and i let him fool me all of that time . He still calls and begs for me back talking about merriage and he was dating the girl for years . If a man won’t let you see his phone leave! If he comes home any time of the night leave! I’ve only been with him and i wouldve died for him and i got enough strenght to get up and walk away . No man is worth me geting into fights over him . And i still love and miss him but i no god has more in store for me than being hurt by a no good man. Ladies don’t waste time on a guy you unsure about. Because at the end of the day i no you dont wanna hear this but cheaters never change if they see you gone forgive him and when you take him back he’ll jus do it again . Ladies you deserve so much better than lies. Being cheated on hurts an if you are not merried or dont have a baby with that man there is really absolutly no reason to stick around . Take it from me you dont want to be in something for four years and then get done wrong and walk away with broken and torn memories of a man . And its other girls or girl feeling the same way about him. If you see signs walk away and nver look back. You deserve so much more . Guys that dont respect you dont completly love you . Trust me even with my boyfriend wanting me back his given me an std and i got in a fight over him and nun of it was worth it the pain a nd sorrow at the end of the day with a cheating boyfriend you walk away manless and heartbroken. If you’re man is cheating ladies walk away and save youre self of that pain.


    Wow Sasha, you have come a really long way. And I totally agree it is far better to part away than stay with a boyfriend who is cheating on you. Especially, when you are young, guys think they will another girl very easily and they don’t feel ready to settle.

  16. SASHA Says:
    May 1st, 2011 at 12:53 am

    you cant love somebody else if you dont no you’re own self worth. love you’re self enough to respect you’re self and to not settle . hope a lady reads my story who was going through what i went through and can be inspired to get out of a bad relationship

  17. shannon Says:
    May 25th, 2011 at 1:30 am

    i have a boyfriend, and when i first got with him, he was fine.. there was no arguments or anything and he brought me everything i wanted, he didnt gel his hair, or anything,then about 3 months into the relationship he starts calling me a slag but when i go mad at him he says its a joke, hes said to my face that he would sleep with my best friend, and he always talks about his ex-girlfiends and the ones that he’s slept with, its so annoying, also we have arguments about the slightest things and he doesnt trust me meeting a friend who is a boy?.. i dont know if he is cheating or not?..

  18. Tash Says:
    June 12th, 2011 at 10:32 am

    I have a boy friend whom i have been with for six years but of recent he sent me an sms which was being addressed in a different name saying how that girl is romantic and beautiful,
    am confused kindly advice me have tried to part with him but still not worked out when i tried to ask him he denied over the message
    but to me thats a real sign of cheating

  19. Terra Says:
    June 13th, 2011 at 10:13 am

    I been with my bf for 5 years we broke up like 2 years ago for like a months and he was seeing some other girl..Then we got back together because I forgive he because we broke up..then almost 6 months down the line he start texting and calling another girl and tell me it justabout work but I.check the phone and they talk for hours at a time I don’t no if he did anything with her he said he didn’t but other people told me he did I don’t no what to believe anymore I truly love him

  20. Men cheatin on us ladies Says:
    August 14th, 2011 at 10:45 am

    Men cn cheat on women vry easly,i once hd a bf whom ive dated fo 3years. He wld nvr let me touch hz 4n,at da begining of our relationshp he used 2col me evry dae,wake me up with swt msgs.i wz stl a virgin bck then.2years latr i slpt wth hm nd lost my virginity,i thot h rly lvd me bt ol he wntd wz 2slp wth me.so 2ol da galz out de nva let any men tke smthn special 4rm u nd gt away wth t

  21. Question Says:
    September 24th, 2011 at 9:14 am

    my bf of 2months has changed,he used to call me evryday n see me trice a week n he lives 2hours from me bt nw he doesnt call me lyk before,he doesnt return my callbacks smses n calls could he be cheating on me or hes lost intrest?

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