How Can a Short Guy Be Attractive to Girls?

Last Revised on November 15, 2010

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If you are a short guy, most likely you have thought about it couple of times whether girls can be attracted to you due to your height? Or do they find you repulsive? It turns out the answer to these questions are not as simple as many might think, and we will try to explain it here.

How Can Short Guys Get a Girl to Like Them?

It is not really a rocket science to know that in our society the height of a men is measured before anything else, especially by the ladies. You will often find women talk about a guy who they have dated and he was shorter than her, or sometimes they will say they have never date a shorter guy. These are some of the reason that makes it so difficult to believe people when they say height doesn’t matter when it comes to love and relationships. But here are the things that you should know about dating challenges faced by short guy and how they can overcome.

Be confidant. Being short can lower any guy’s self-esteem; but on the other hand, if they maintain their self confidence, that can become a deal breaker to attract many girls. Many girls do have their own low self-esteem problem, and when they notice a short guy talk and behave confidently they are instantly attract to such guy. Also know that the average height of an adult woman is less than 5 foot 4 inches. Men are often given the responsibility or expected to make the first move when asking for a date; if you are confident, you will get it on first try. Girls like guys who have good personality traits, with good sense of humor, is a hard worker, treats other with respect and is happy with their life. Be comfortable with yourself.

Browse and search online dating sites.If you have used dating sites before, you may be familiar about all your vital stats and information they ask, which includes the color of your hair and eyes, and body build along with height. This is where it gets tricky. A lot of guys will stop there if they are short, but it is better if you finish the whole profile information including your real height. There are so many girls online (that’s true) and there is no way that you won’t find a girl who doesn’t care about height; some might be short themselves, others give priority to other things that mere height of a guy. Online dating site works in your advantage when you are not only a short guy but also developed shyness as a result; you should fill out the whole information and places where they ask for you to add about your interest, hobbies and personalities be sure to not miss them. This is where you get to showcase yourself and make the girls like you.

What is important for girls besides the height of a guy? At the end of the day, no matter what other people or I say you will be making the choice about which path to follow to get a girl in your life. One thing that should help you, however, is that even if you continue to believe height is the most important factor in finding a girl to date, it is not the only factor. Otherwise, all the tall guys will have a girlfriend. But we know that’s not the case. Many girls might put height of a guy on their top list for dating matches, but not all do that. So what else it could be that girls are going after when looking for a guy? They like short guys who are fun to be with, can tell quick witted jokes, doesn’t get mad easily, sociable, outgoing,  and good person in real life.

Look in the right place. A short guy will have less chance to get a girl in a bar, than on the internet. In the bar, girls might feel uncomfortable to be around a short guy since that would be the first time and around lots of people. Go to places where you enjoy the most, where you are the best. You will find girls who like the same thing as you do, and your short height will be negated easily and won’t matter much at all. Falling in love would be easy after that.

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6 Responses to “How Can a Short Guy Be Attractive to Girls?”

  1. Who is Most Attractive Short Guy? Says:
    November 24th, 2010 at 7:26 pm

    Does anyone know who is the most attractive short guy? Also I noticed according to a lot of places or people that embrace tallness, the average height of a guy is 5.9 feet. That’s not true. And men comes in all shape and sizes.

  2. why do girls not like short guys Says:
    November 29th, 2010 at 9:04 am

    C’mon people, we have to be honest to ourselves. It’s the truth – the girls like guys who are taller not short in height. This might have to do with the evolution process where the individuals wants to go with with other individuals who can help keep them survive. Although, it doesn’t mean that the guys who are short won’t help girls survive but it’s just subconsciously thinking that taller guys can protect them better.

  3. shorty Says:
    January 5th, 2011 at 2:55 pm

    so is it true that all short guys are bad person and all tall guys are good person….i thought everyone tall or short are human beings and good or bad lies in eveyone of them. It does not matter if girls dont like short guys, it would only mean they are missing something which might be good in that person other then being short…its the soul which matters..
    maybe for women/girls tall guys are have a better soul and can protect them better…i wonder why all girls dont marry Goliath then ….why choose David???

  4. shortny Says:
    February 9th, 2011 at 9:59 pm

    so is it true that all short guys are bad person and all tall guys are good person….i thought everyone tall or short are human beings and good or bad lies in eveyone of them. It does not matter if girls dont like short guys, it would only mean they are missing something which might be good in that person other then being short…its the soul which matters..
    maybe for women/girls tall guys are have a better soul and can protect them better…i wonder why all girls dont marry Goliath then ….why choose David???

  5. Flaviosai Says:
    June 5th, 2011 at 12:47 pm

    Actually, women prefer tall guys. They seem more secure and manly. That is stupid! I am short for my age (14 years old and 4’8), and there are some girls at school that like me. It’s all about self-esteem. Girls find me cute, funny and intelligent. If we hang out with taller guys also improves the impression women have for you (one of my best friends is 6’2!). Give yourself valour and go win this world. Be happy!

  6. flame Says:
    June 27th, 2012 at 4:52 pm

    with big thing if you know what i mean, enhancement.

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